And also - I’m noticing more & more of you mentioning + tying his real name to this shit without censoring. It’s becoming so normalized in this fandom which is so harmful to him and the people he knows. Anybody; his friends, family can see that shit when they look his name up
Yall can have ur fantasies or wtv (still questionable behaviour imo) but the minute you start projecting those exact “fantasies” onto the real person, THATS the issue!! Which 90% of yall do anyways!
SEPARATE THE REAL PERSON FROM YOUR FICTION.
I’m sorry akgae? Do you need to double check what that means? Not once have I ever put another member down. I’m solely here to speak out about the constant disrespect of SH from this fandom, most of the time being from matzers which would be you.
So because sh wanted to be cautious since his MOTHER was in the car with him, that makes him a passenger princess? tf?
Also ofc you only used pics of him with both hands on the wheel, when he also drives one handed in the video. Which again means nothing btw !
It has been like this for years. Putting words in his mouth, twisting everything he does + says, thinking they can have a say in how he changes his appearance. They have only ever treated him like a fictional character and never a real person .
The video in question was taken without their permission btw! And if that is the shade hes going with, yall have no right to comment if you like it or not !
Its ALWAYS matzers. Every single fcking time. + Always the ones who are only ok with SH presenting in a “feminine” way to their liking. They are always the 1st ones to critique + hate on him when he doesnt look the way they want him to. They don’t actually like him & never have
La trata como un HIJO debe tratar a su mamá.. y si ellos tienen ese tipo de relación es porque ella lo crió con amor, es tan simple como eso, no tiene nada que ver con "la hija que no tuvo" dejen de tratar a Seonghwa como si fuera una mina, son re pesadas
@duckulathecount Ya I think the context was kind of him trying to soften how he really felt. At least that’s what I’m understanding . especially with so many kfans mad.
But even Korean fans are expressing their anger towards the situation? So it must’ve hurt him to some degree because I don’t think he’d go out of his way to say those things and then disappear so quickly. He’s usually on fromm much longer than that.
The way Seonghwa replied here is rather sulky and not super serious, BUT the fact he even mentioned it shows he notices and reads comments.
Everyone has opinions, but be kind.
@lovelifebeauty_ You could clearly see he was hurt, whether he made it seem lighthearted or not. He didn’t respond for 6 minutes after that, wrote a few more messages and left. He usually stays much longer.
i can’t wrap my head around ppl making rude comments over a hairstyle and ruining the night of someone who struggled with insecurities about his appearance in the past and worked for years to overcome them.. and the fact that they paid money just to do that makes it even worse...
And people wonder why Seonghwa doesn’t come on fromm anywhere near as often as he used to. He used to share so much with us, and often, but you all took that safe space with fans away from him.
“I hope people weren’t actually being mean to him abt his hair” Im sorry, and you WERENT being mean with what you said yesterday? I thought he was a “grown man” and we should treat him as such? Sybau. You’re the problem.