that's why my love language is words of affirmation 🥺
I value mature discussion so much bcs affirmation isn’t just about compliments, it’s about being heard, validated, and having your thoughts taken seriously
Mature people talk, explain, apologize and try to repair. Avoidant people just use silence in hopes everything goes away. Just showing you how emotionally immature they really are.
some people aren’t aware enough to truly receive what you’re saying 🤷♂️ they react emotionally because they’re more focused on winning the argument 🙌 than on learning or growing.
that’s a lack of emotional intelligence 🧠
Belajar untuk fahami tanpa perlu berkecil hati. Be rational and use common sense before you assume. This is something that you need to master in life. Be considerate and thoughtful because life isn’t about you all the time.
"Dia dah dapat kerja, aku belum"
"Dia dah naik pangkat, aku belum"
"Dia dah ada kereta, aku ni takde apa"
"Dia dah ada anak, aku masih sendu sepi"
Tak aneh kalau kita pernah rasa begini. Cuma, tahu tak ada ayat yang sangat indah, al-Quran huraikan tentang sifat ini?