Or privately.
It’s like divorce, you should simply refuse to entertain such thoughts when they arise because they’re dumb. Your spouse does something dumb and your brain is like “there’s always divorce” and you’re like, “no, that’s idiotic overkill, I’m not considering it.” Your kid does something dumb and your brain is like “wish we never had him” and you should just immediately shut that down. Your kid is a human being. Doing something dumb is built right in.
Have enough humility to love others as themselves. Stop being so selfish that your minor or even major inconvenience means someone else shouldn’t exist.
Yes.
If you are marrying as a woman at 30-35, you are going to struggle a lot to have 10+ kids.
That’s what the pro-natalist freaky weirdos mean when they say you are “infertile”. They don’t realise you wanting 1-3 kids is normal, because they’re living in cults.
the purpose of school is not to "socialize" your kids, and I *really* doubt homeschool is on average more abusive than the average middle school. but none of that matters, bc the real purpose of school is just: daycare. and once you understand this, the truth will set you free.
this take is also funny to me because the majority of people today (almost all went through public school) are absolutely terrible at socializing. so where did this insane idea that public school is the only way to teach socializing come from???
it's amazing how much public education has failed our society. people don't even know what socialization is and that you get it from EVERYWHERE 🤦🏻♀️ unless your child is locked in a room by themself or completely ignored, you're teaching socialization. this argument is ridiculous.
Homeschooling should be illegal.
“But I teach my kids better than the state!”
Doesn’t matter, the primary purpose of elementary/middle school isn’t to teach it’s to socialize your kid. You can’t do that alone.
And this isn’t even mentioning how it can be used to abuse kids
these are the same people who'll defend a woman's choice to abortion yet want to force men into getting a vasectomy????? just walking around having no idea what your morals or values are because not one of them is consistent with the next.
i can't believe how many people have been brainwashed into thinking something like this isn't a HUGE decision. y'all throw out "get a vasectomy! get a hysterectomy!" like that isn't an extremely drastic, life-altering choice to make...
The number of MARRIED women I know who’ve had MULTIPLE children and whose husbands STILL refuse to get vasectomies is a radicalizing event I fear.
What do you MEAN you let your wife go through all that and still won’t do a 20 min procedure so she doesn’t have to put potentially harmful substances in her body?
i think it speaks volumes that the first solution you have in mind is to ask the mom to move her baby instead of just moving yourself 💀 the entitlement of human beings nowadays never fails to blow my mind
If your neighbour has a baby, and it cries ALL NIGHT, and it's room-is directly next to yours divided by a wall, is it okay to ask them to move the baby to another room?
My alarm goes off at 5am. This baby cries until 2, 3am most nights. I am exhausted. I am ill. I am childless by choice and I DO NOT need this.
I understand the mother is tired.
But you know what? This was not my choice. I'm experiencing the consequences of her choice and I am no longer understanding of it.
You can’t figure out Christianity from the Bible alone. The Bible is a Catholic book. It came from the Church, over 300 years into Church history. The Bible can only be properly understood within the tradition that bore it!
this is the worst year to be lying about families getting a bunch of money back in taxes considering they just made a HUGE change to the child tax credit, allowing for only ONE credit regardless of how many kids you have 😂
here to remind everyone, it's not possible to get a tax return unless you work during the year. or commit tax fraud. i don't know where you guys get this crap...
If abortion is illegal because "sex has natural consequences," then liver transplants for alcoholics and lung transplants for smokers should be illegal too because consequences of smoking/drinking darling are so consistent. Go argue with the wall.
i think it's funny how people assume you gotta be super well-off financially in order to homeschool. mine & my husband's decision to homeschool meant i'd stop working & our family would have to make MAJOR sacrifices.
you just gotta figure out what's important to your family.