@TippinHerVelvet @sashaonberries @OnTheWomanQ Bro my roommates have never spoken to me about genital preference and I am not sleeping with any of them. And all the trans fems that I am involved with *I* slid into *their* dms. You can think what you want abt me but stop demonizing trans ppl when this is all my own choices
@nthishen@Samuelschmamuel@OnTheWomanQ You can think whatever you want it doesn't change the fact that I am a lesbian. Is your name Summer? Do you live in this body? You're not the one who gets to label my own sexuality.
@dissentery @coaxialcreature@OnTheWomanQ Im saying its possible for genital preferences to be based in transphobia. Mine was based in transphobia. When I started truly viewing trans women as women I realized parts didn't really matter that much to me
@dissentery @coaxialcreature@OnTheWomanQ I mean everyone has internal biases. Having transphobic bias doesn't mean youre a hateful bigot, it just means you have some stuff to work through. Just like when ppl have implicit racial biases. We all get harmful ideas from society that we need to unpack
@dissentery @coaxialcreature@OnTheWomanQ Maybe to some ppl that preference rlly is a core part of their identity, and I don't think ppl should be like "forced" out of it. I just know my own genital preference was based in transphobia, and my feelings changed after self reflection. All I am encouraging is self reflection
@Samuelschmamuel@OnTheWomanQ I am not bisexual to any degree. I am not attracted to men in any way. I date women and nonbinary ppl. I know not all lesbians feel the same abt genitals as me, which is why I made this video sharing my experience.
@theuselesscook @OnTheWomanQ I mean yeah I've been using strap ons is it really that much of a stretch 🤣 I care about the person not what parts they have. I date women + nonbinary ppl regardless of genitals. Just no men 🏳️🌈