Stop letting people consume you. They didn’t call? Go to sleep. They didn’t message you? Put your phone down and have a better day. They left you on read? Delete the conversation. They didn’t make an effort? Match their energy. Don't let anyone drain you of your happiness.
Let go. Love them from a distance. Let them figure out their feelings, what they want in life, where they are going and who they want to be. Focus on yourself and your goals while giving them space. And remember, you're not obligated to still be there waiting when they're ready.
I’m not interested in complicated relationships… with friends, family or lovers. I’m not interested in constantly explaining what I meant. I’m not interested in making sure we’re on good terms bc you’re acting weird. I’m not interested in shrinking myself to make us equal..
Your entire life will change once you stop pouring into cups that don't pour into yours. Family, friends, colleagues, and acquaintances included. It may sound harsh but you deserve to be treated as good as you treat others. You deserve people who show up for you. You are worthy.