The minimum wage should be a number that, if you work at that wage for 40 hours per week, you’re able to afford housing, healthcare, and groceries.
That’s not a radical belief.
stay away from people who always consider you expressing how you feel as you arguing or being extra. it’s called gaslighting. toxic people do that so they don’t have to take accountability for their own behavior.
Real psychotherapy isn’t about giving answers.
It’s about surviving the not-knowing — together.
This is another realm where AI fails.
Therapy is the alchemy of two nervous systems in dialogue. No algorithm, however advanced, can replace the patient–therapist field.
you’re not meant to stay regulated and calm in the presence of things that demand fire. some things are meant to inspire rage because they are evil and your response to them should be out of proportion. you’re meant to feel it. sometimes fire is the most honest thing in the room.
my mom once told me “accountability will always feel like an attack when you are not ready to acknowledge how your behavior harms others” and that shit is real.