I stand on the fact that your birthday is the one day of the year that everybody needs to fall in line. It’s 1 of 365. You can’t show any effort for 24hrs?? Bye.
If your relationship doesn't make you feel loved, relaxed, and safe then it's not healthy for you. Your partner should remove stress from your life.
NOT consistently add stress. Your partner should be your safe place. Not the root of your pain and fear and heartache. Know that.
dating is supposed to be fun. relationships are supposed to be fun. love is supposed to be enjoyable. don’t ever let the internet convince you that you have to suffer first to deserve a genuine connection w someone.
One day y’all gonna have to view relationships as something you show up and participate in and not something you show up and receive.
Y’all have to be willing to plan dates and be able to give examples of the romance you want you want by showing it.