This is really the root of it. Poor white people are envious & insecure about what many of us have worked hard for compared to what has been handed to them through their privilege. Yet it’s easier to align with white supremacy than to better themselves & fight against capitalism.
If you can watch your bestie struggle while knowing that you have the ability to relieve their stress as if it were nothing, then you two are not best friends. Your evil and a monitoring spirit.
Hyper-independent ladies will tell you it’s the opposite. Asking a man for money means he’s made us feel safe enough to believe it won’t come with strings. Comfortably asking for anything / relying on ppl requires a vulnerability we struggle with. We do that when we LOVE someone.