Intelligence mostly comes down to genetics. That’s why one of the worst things you can do is procreate with a low IQ individual. you gotta be able to evaluate people beyond their looks
The healthcare IT lane is one of the most underdiscussed high income paths in 2026. You are not a doctor. You are not a nurse. You are the person who implements and manages the software that runs hospitals and clinics. Epic Systems alone powers 38% of US hospitals. Epic certified professionals make $85,000 to $130,000. Training programs exist. The certification is free through Epic's own platform. Every hospital system in America needs these people right now.
A cheating man is bad enough.
But you know what's even worse?
A man who pretends to be good but in reality is a pathological liar, lustful manipulator, and an expert at playing the victim.
i don't believe in being fumbled. if a person did something to lose me it's because they didn't like me and didn't want me. it was intentional. cause you don't mistreat what you want to keep around. it’s that simple.
Someone I know was in a toxic relationship and kept getting sick (panic attacks, IBS symptoms, chest issues, unable to even keep food down, losing weight and more). Doctors would never know what was wrong with her, they couldn’t give her a proper diagnosis. She was in hospital often for years. The moment she broke up with her boyfriend, it all went away. I keep telling people, the body keeps the score. When you’re unhappy, your body will pay the price and you’re sending yourself to an early grave staying anywhere toxic.