home to ourselves. something that made us love ourselves harder. that instead of allowing that heartbreak to turn us against ourselves, it was the force that finally made us choose ourselves. it's messy but it's beautiful too.
i saw someone posted "i was put into his life to teach him unconditional love and he was put in mine to teach me self love." and as heartbreaking as that truth is, maybe we can simply be grateful that the universe sent us something so deeply hurtful that it forced us to come +
I will NOT drive myself crazy trying to love a man that knows I’m good to him. I will NOT lose myself in love again. I will NOT honor a cheating man. I will NOT allow another man to manipulate me into thinking I’m the problem & the reason he does the things he does to hurt me. I will NOT accept other women just to have a higher position in a man’s life. I will NOT settle because I’m afraid to lose the love I’ve gained for a man. I will NOT damage myself to keep a man happy. MY happiness is my only concern & if he’s a real he will do anything to see me happy.
I saw a TikTok about a girl saying how she doesn't stay mad for long because either she's going to figure it out, or there's nothing that can be done about it. And as simple as that sounds is as simple as it is really.
SIS, before you start making your goals for 2023, make sure you become loyal to your word! don’t just write goals to be cute. handle that shit like you said you’re going to! commit to doing what you said you are going to do. quit PLAYING and DISAPPOINTING YOURSELF all of the time
it hurts me when i have to act cold, & pretend like i don't care, because that's not me. i'm a soft hearted person. i don't want to hide from you how much i do care about you. i want to shower you with my love & make you feel you're important. +