My love language is honestly the little things. Random reassurance, soft touches, forehead kisses, sending me a message when you’re busy just so I know you thought about me, remembering tiny things I said weeks ago, pulling me closer while we sleep, asking if I got home safely, matching my energy, and making me feel wanted without me having to beg for it. I just want a love that feels genuine, soft, comforting, and safe 🥹❤️
"Lovers & Leavers"
Most lovers & leavers are great communicators. Real lovers. Givers. Kind, & patient to a fault.
They’ll take their time to explain, teach you their love language, express their emotions, make you feel the deepest love you’ve ever experienced, & still remain patient while waiting for you to reciprocate.
It almost feels like a fairy tale, however the love is soaked in realism.
Most times, the partners of "Lovers & Leavers" take that love for granted. They become complacent, believing their partner could never leave no matter how poorly they’re treated.
But with time, patience starts waning. Emotional distance starts breeding. The effort fades silently. Then one day, they take the exit door with utmost quietness.
That’s usually when the other partner suddenly wants to "fix things."
Unfortunately, by then, the damage has already settled deep.
Learn, fix up, love your partner properly. Learn their love language. Emotional starvation is soul wrecking, yet so many people treat it like it’s harmless.