@SoulRevision You don’t get to high positions of power unless you are willing to uphold the system. This is a story that plays out everyday in institutions. There is no transforming the machine from the inside. You are there to keep it functioning.
why is it always "follow the rules" and never "to what end will following the rules take me & do I want to go there? who do the rules serve & do I want to serve them too? will the rules follow me & are they open to feedback?"
I've been considering how one of the pathways to healing our wounds of abandonment is to practice engaging with conflict, to learn how to be with relational tension & resolve it together - even if yall still go your separate ways
conflict resolution as a care practice
@InnerTuned "I'm having difficulty understanding what you're asking of me, can you phrase it in a different way please?"
"are you looking for advice or feedback right now or are you just needing someone to be with you so that you're not alone?"
@InnerTuned questions I might ask others :
"I could use some help, but I'm not sure what I'm needing right now. I'm going to take some time to sit with it. can you check back in with me soon if I don't reach out first?"
@InnerTuned sure I'd be happy to share more of my thoughts
are you thinking more along the lines of questions to ask ourselves when we're triggered or questions to ask one another?
shout out to the neurodivergent folks who make sense of the world around them through pattern recognition because pattern recognition is how we move from "something must be wrong with me" to "the system isn't working for any of us" so that we can create new pathways for thriving
embodied communication also sounds like : "I don't have words to describe what I'm feeling right now. but it's important to me that I find a way to express myself. are you open to asking me questions so that I can work through it with your support?"
reclamation is an achievement
coming undone is an investment in transformation
growth happens in all directions
here's to the full moon in capricorn illuminating just how expansive our movement options truly are
folks who are tapped into Spirit are most definitely going to seem strange & unconventional to people who don't have that relationship
there's a different level of insight & faith mechanics guiding our daily movement. & when you're accountable to Spirit, you just move different
this is a process that many of us have experienced over & over again in our inner world
change scaled to the macro level is how systems are transformed
it makes sense that institutions & large-scale operations are breaking down
this is necessary for new ways of being to sprout
hi 💚
just a reminder that part of the change/transformation process looks like coming undone in liminal spaces
like the hanged one in tarot, we turn upside down & shake all of the loose ends out so that we can break free & reimagine the shape we're emerging into