As a babymother I wouldn’t choose this life again. I long for a family. Not being a single mother. You’ll meet these broken men who seek validation from multiple women. They’ll sell you a dream of being a “family” but in reality they don’t want to settle down yet they just don’t want to lose you. Your pregnancy should be such a beautiful & peaceful experience. Not traumatic. I say this to say pls pls pls be careful with who you choose to have kids with. I learned my lesson the hard way & if I could give any advice it would be this! I didn’t know how I strong I was til I became a mother. But it’s one of the hardest titles I’ve ever had to carry.