Dolly Parton being hot, sexy and vampy well into her 70s on her own terms is extremely aspirational & valid. You should always do what you want who cares, be sexy and carefree until the wheels fall off.
I really loved Dolly Parton‘s music, but I love what she did for literacy even more. that woman gave away thousands of books and helped thousands of children learn to read and continue their love of reading. she will always be iconic for investing in education in that way
Somewhere in your 20s or 30s you’ll get the opportunity to rebuild your life after a negative loop. It's very important that you see that journey through.