At some point you gotta get serious about your life. Delete numbers, stay away from love that isn’t real, hustle, get your spirit and mental right. You have to demand positivity and change.
I THOUGHT I WANTED A RELATIONSHIP SO BAD BUT TODAY I REALIZE THAT I DONT! I NEED TO GET MYSELF TOGETHER 1st! Get right with God, get in shape, work on my credit, work on saving, work on my attitude and mindset, change my environment! SO THEN I CAN ATTRACT THE RIGHT VIBES!
A girl on tik tok just said "I would rather adjust my life to your absence, than adjust my boundaries to accommodate your disrespect" and I think that a lot of people need to take that and really engrave it into their soul.
detachment doesn't mean to cut them off. it's about removing your expectations and fully embracing their presence without any strings attached. you'll know you're detached when you can fully enjoy their presence without fearing their absence
When people don’t consider you in the same way you consider them, let them go. There’re actually so many people in the world that can match your energy and love you the way you love.
my last relationship taught me that the more chances you give someone, the less they value you. they're not afraid to lose you because they know no matter what, you won't walk away. never let someone get too comfortable with disrespecting you. love yourself first.