Growth is a lonely process. It's unique to everyone. We don't know why we grow the way we do. We didn't choose the lessons presented to us. We didn't choose the experiences we placed in front of us. Sometimes things just happen, and it feels like we're passengers in this life.
There's something equally liberating and upsetting about growing. Shedding old, breathing new. It can be heartbreaking and equally inspiring. Don't let yourself get down because someone didn't grow with you the way you wanted them to. Not all plants grow the same or well together
Personal development is so important. You can change and be better. You can do everything necessary to make yourself stronger, but that doesnt mean they'll change. It doesnt mean they'll love you more. It doesnt mean they see anything wrong with them. Not everyone grows with you.