Upgrading my appearance.
Becoming hard to reach.
Working 24/7.
Choosing happiness.
Cutting off toxic people.
No roaster.
Enjoying my alone time.
Forgiving myself.
your entire life can really change in a year.. you just gotta love yourself enough to know you deserve more, be brave enough to demand more, and be disciplined enough to actually work for more. you can do it. you got this.
i told my man straight up… if i gotta keep explaining how to treat me, that’s not love… that’s training. and he looked me dead in my face and said, “i never asked you to stay.” that’s when it clicked… some men don’t actually want a good woman, they just want access to one. and somehow we get stuck thinking it’s our job to teach them how to love us right… when really, they already decided they weren’t going to.✌🏾💯