I wouldn’t have gone through half the things I did , if I just loved myself more and picked myself more.
I’d be so far in life,more mentally and emotionally grounded.
Unlearning how to people please is a journey. At some point, you’ll run into a situation where you’re prompted to do it but you just won’t want to. You won’t even try to care and you’re not concerned with the outcome of that. It all ends up becoming effortless.
I love it.
Ngizwe ancestors work airtime,the same day he handed himself over to the Police the Cult Leader Julius Malema texts gets exposed between him and General Khan
Never underestimate intelezi boys again
i used to believe being nice would always come back to me as kindness. life eventually teaches you that people respond to kindness based on who they are, not who you are.
Somewhere in your 20s or 30s you’ll get the opportunity to rebuild your life after a negative loop, heal from what broke you, live in your own space, reconnect with your discipline, and learn to love yourself again. It’s very important that you see that journey through.
10 WAYS TO TORTURE A NARCISSIST:
1. Ignore Their Attempts to Provoke You
Narcissists thrive on reactions. Stay calm and indifferent, and they’ll spiral when they realize they can’t control your emotions.
You can always tell that a person is never held accountable by the way they engage in conflict in their relationships with other people.
They believe that they’re always right and pride dictates their actions.
I have no interest in being around people who assign malicious intent to every mistake. If grace is reserved for no one, not even the people in your life, I can only imagine how harshly you judge strangers
Y'all ever dealt with a person so manipulative and draining that you literally just give up on trying to get your point across? Because all they do is PURPOSELY try not to understand and flip it back on you?