major cheat code in life: be the one who reaches out. text first. call first. plan first. initialize first. most people wait to be chosen. be the chooser. connection requires initiative. friendship requires effort. love requires action. stop waiting to be picked. start picking. initiative is attractive.
STOP ARGUING with MEN who have NEVER been TOLD they're the PROBLEM. They've spent THEIR whole LIVES dodging ACCOUNTABILITY, blaming EVERYBODY else, USING and MANIPULATING WOMEN, and SURROUNDING themselves with OTHER MEN who VALIDATE every BAD decision THEY make. You can't CHANGE somebody who's been REWARDED for PLAYING the VICTIM
Unfortunately, I have to admit that I've not done my best. My current situation is a direct consequence of my incompetence. I suck at doing this life thing.
disturb me.
update me.
show your jealous side.
yap non stop.
spam me photos/texts.
tell me how your day went.
show me your fit.
call me anytime.
i love all that