Choose love.
In times of pain, choose love.
In times of judgement, choose love.
In times of worry, choose love.
Always always, choose to love others because they're a reflection of you.
And always choose to love yourself
- xo, v
It’s so easy to categorize a mistake
As a Fail w a capital F. But it’s really just growing pains showing up as a dysmorphia. Growing pains hurt like hell yet reveal to us a newness. A beautiful, unapologetic new way of being, living, breathing.
Past 6 months have been a rebirth. A recalibration and reminder of self-love and self-discipline. Personally and Universally. 2023. They don’t call it the Jordan Year for nada.
Also, the spiritual and physical realms are becoming so thin right now 😭 I see and hear my loved ones that have crossed over so timely & vividly right now. S/o to water season/element being the bridge of it all 💙
Fr fr? I love that we are all on some typa mission to make this world a better place. No career, passion is too small when you’re only goal is to make someone smile. That’s a win. That’s the prize. And We already won. The journey is that much richer.
Right now life is teaching me the law of detachment. nothing is really yours, you have to be comfortable with not being attached, just enjoying life for what it is & moving on when it’s time.
It can be hard but By no means is it impossible to do. You think you got it one minute and a trail of thoughts come right in next in line. Leaving you distracted. It’s a practice. A commitment. A high calling.
Having children with the right man who wants to have his children and be present in their lives, and show them healthy parenting with you is so much more important than having them by a certain age.
Even if you feel like you failed today, if all you did was love… that’s enough. You never fail with love 🤍
Love is not only romance… it looks like kindness, caring, nurturing, forgiveness, tenderness… honesty, gratitude and compassion 🤍💫
Friendship is one of life's greatest gifts. These are the people we love by choice. We get to choose the gorgeous Souls we want to share this incredible journey with. It is the most beautiful gift. Honour these sacred connections with all of your heart 😍
Not everyone is meant to parent.
Having a child is not an afterthought.
It take emotional awareness, intentional choices, and a willingness to heal your own wounds.
To raise a healthy adult, you need to become one.
You’re safe.
No one is mad at you.
You can stop assuming.
You’re not that small child in trouble, who can’t relax.
The hypervigilance is from your past.
You’re safe, now.