One of the best things you can do for yourself in adulthood, is to learn how to leave things alone.
Just leave it alone. Situations, people, whatever it is, leave it alone.
كنت في عزيمة مع زوجي وسط أهله
وفجأة بنت عمه اللي تطلقت تمزح وقالت إذا طفشت منها تعرف وين تلقاني
ابتسمت كأن الموضوع عادي بس انصدمت من الكلام
زوجي رد فورًا وقال أنا ما أقبل قلة الاحترام خاصة على زوجتي
سكت المجلس وتغير الجو وما حاول يخففها أو يضحك
وقتها فهمت إن الوفاء الحقيقي يبان قدام الناس مو بس بالكلام بينكم
Fun fact: After childbirth, a woman’s hormones don’t just “drop”... they plummet. Within the first 24–72 hours after delivery, estrogen and progesterone fall dramatically from their peak pregnancy levels to near pre-pregnancy levels. It’s one of the most abrupt hormonal shifts the human body goes through.
During pregnancy, estrogen and progesterone are extremely elevated. Once the placenta is delivered, those hormones decline rapidly, signaling the body to stop sustaining pregnancy and begin milk production. At the same time, prolactin rises to support lactation, oxytocin surges to help the uterus contract, and the uterus begins shrinking back to its original size... a process that takes weeks. Postpartum bleeding (lochia) can last 4–6 weeks as the body heals.
This intense hormonal shift is one major reason many women experience mood swings, tearfulness, irritability, or the “baby blues” in the first days after birth. For some, the changes can contribute to postpartum depression or anxiety.
All of this happens while she’s recovering physically, often sleep-deprived, and caring for a newborn around the clock. So yes... if she doesn’t feel like herself right away, that’s not weakness. That’s biology.
My theory that money is always better personified in women than in men. A billionaire & comfortable man stand together and you won't know who's richer. But women? It's almost impossible to hide. And this isn't even about loud jewelry. It's the sheer elegance and glowing skin.