Genesis In PHC that will sell you spoilt food at exorbitant prices 🙄🙄🙄
They will never see me or my money again
Just remembered the last time and got angry mtshewwww…..
A key point people aren’t touching on is that the character in the hypothetical scenario being discussed said it hurts to watch someone she started with excelling **while nothing seems to be going well for her**, and that it’s been a struggle to not constantly self-compare.
I feel like not enough people are looking at it from the perspective of someone who is working hard with nothing to show for it while the people around them succeed. Are you saying it’s morally wrong to feel hurt, jealous, or to self-compare especially when things just aren’t going well for you? Or that choosing to curtail your overexposure to these feelings so they don’t consume you is evil?
Would you hold the same stance if it were someone who has been battling infertility for years and chooses to create distance because it has become increasingly painful to watch others have children and celebrate milestones with them, while for her it is one miscarriage after another?
Is choosing to listen to your inner alarm bell and creating a boundary that works for your conscience before it leads to destruction inherently bad? If we’re saying that envy or jealousy is destructive when left unchallenged, why are we saying that someone who has the self-awareness to challenge it and remove the source before it destroys them—however radical the decision may have been—is evil? Isn’t that miles better than hanging around and negotiating endlessly with something that could ultimately cause harm or resentment?
Why is everyone fixated on all the other details but not the fact that this person is fundamentally unhappy with and unfulfilled in their own lives because nothing is working for them?
@Maryanne_Karey People want to make it a conversation about extremes, like ooh if you feel left behind it means you hate your friend and you might even kill them
Omo, Protect your mental health at all costs o!!!!
I don’t need constant reminders that my life is shit and all my school/class mates appear to be doing tremendously well in life compared to me.
Make nobody tension me
2026 owes me my big girl career. One that comes with financial stability, career progression, occasional travel, a good work environment and great colleagues
Nigeria is bleeding. Girls are being kidnapped, villages attacked and innocent people are dying every single week. Our leaders are silent while citizens live in fear. This is not governance. This is neglect. We need real security and real leadership now. Enough is enough!!!!!
@SkinwithLolami They don’t see anything wrong in the minors and spying on his female friends part cause they can relate to it…some of them probably do same and worse
The only thing they couldn’t relate to was the “cat” and that’s why they focused on it
HER WORLD. HER REALITY. HER TRUTH ✊🏾
Omo Ayanwale... the one whose scars didn’t define, but refined.
Imisi... the one who walks with the strength of someone who has seen darkness, yet chose light.
Opeyemi... not made in comfort, not raised in ease, but built in fire and still glowing.
She is AYANWALE IMISIOLUWA IMOLEAYO OPEYEMI🫂🧡
A living testimony that the girl child deserves protection, love, and opportunities, not pain.
But Nigeria tells a harsher truth:
• National studies show roughly 1 in 4 girls suffer some form of sexual violence before age 18.
• About 1 in 10 experience rape before 19.
• Most cases are never reported, and justice is rare.
Children are assaulted in homes, schools, even religious homes meant to be safe.
Imisi’s story is personal but, it is not isolated. It echoes in countless hidden lives across Nigeria and beyond.
When you raise a girl with care, you raise a nation.
When you give her love, she becomes light.
This is not just her story. It is every girl’s story.
Let’s protect them. Let’s love them. Let’s believe in them.
#ImisiAyanwale
#BBNaija