If your girl looks better without you (as in before you, after you, or when she’s not around you) than it means you and you alone are the drain on her beauty and spirit.
“Men are natural leaders” until it’s time to plan dates or do chores and then it’s just “tell me what you want, make me a list, tell me what you need me to do”
Hm
Husband is relaxing in the house, wife
is washing a bale of clothes outside under the sun. After this, she'll go and cook. They do this every Saturday and they both go to work from Monday to Friday. You see this kind of marriage? I reject it for all my female friends.
@Roderic50663818@mikey_esquire You woulda miserable too if you had to work in those conditions and you not even getting good pay to survive. Not excusing the behaviour but I’m not bashing them for it either because that does not solve the problem. He has the authority to fix this. Thats all.
Nowhere did I say it cannot be spoken about nor measures put in place to address it. Read again, I said “do not blame”.
There is a way to address the inefficiencies without casting blame. It is just not a good look.
Minister Tufton, do you understand that as the ultimate leader of the ministry, issues within said ministry will be pointed back at you, whether or not you directly had anything to do with it, whether or not you were aware of it? It comes with the title, and has nothing to do with picking on anyone. Whether you like it or not, even when you believe it’s unfair, unfortunately.
What you do is set systems in place to ensure that the issues don’t occur, AND that the respective persons governing the various bodies are held accountable to prevent recurrence.
What was highlighted in my original post was that two things can be true at the same time.
I find it endlessly amusing when men expect a level of domestic labour from me that I don't even do for myself. If I haven't built my own life around cooking every single day, what exactly makes you think you'll be the exception?