This may sound harsh, but as a woman you cannot surround yourself with a bunch of miserable women and thrive. I know everyone has their moments and goes through things but some are just internally miserable and will never be able to lift you or genuinely be happy for you.
The older I get the more I realize that everything really is that deep. The people you confide in, trust, date, become friends with, where you work, the opportunities you take, what you watch, what you eat, & what you consume. it’s very deep actually & shouldn’t be taken lightly.
I think one of the healthiest things I’ve ever learned is that you should allow others to reintroduce themselves to you, even your closest friends. Give people space to become who they are without assuming you know who they are just bc you’ve been friends/family for years
DO NOT BACKTRACK i repeat DO NOT BACKTRACK: friendships, relationships, jobs, or anything you’ve left in the past. It was for a reason so keep it that way.