Focus on the things you are for, not the things you are against.
Many people spend large chunks of their day thinking about what they hate. They are always telling you about something they dislike: this food, that subject, this political party, that coworker.
You are more than your frustrations. Build your identity around what you love.
Al responsable de calendarizar mis eventos canónicos: una crisis existencial y un procedimiento médico en la misma semana me parece una decisión operativa bastante cuestionable.
people always ask me how i maintain such a positive outlook and the honest answer they rarely like to hear is that it takes intention to be a positive person. it takes a certain stubbornness, an insistence upon inspiring yourself over and over again, a deliberate choosing of prettier thoughts that will actively organize your rendering of reality around hope and gratitude rather than scarcity and cynicism. it’s an act of defiance, almost. an unwillingness to surrender.
Mi cita ginecológica tuvo un giro teológico que nadie vio venir. No sé qué me desconcierta más: que me preguntaran mi religión o no haber preguntado para qué la necesitaban.