One of all the terrible effects of grief is that we interpret its absence as egotism. It's impossible to explain what you have to do in order to carry on after the funeral, how to put the pieces of a family back together again, how to live with the jagged egdes.
Memang tak boleh go dengan mentality 'orang lama' instead of improve yourself, kau nak jugak tolak kerja dekat budak budak muda. Gaji nak besau, kalau boleh makan nak berhidang tapi nak jugak orang suapkan. Elok gantung dekat valve jacket biar tenggelam.
One of all the terrible effects of grief is that we interpret its absence as egotism. It's impossible to explain what you have to do in order to carry on after the funeral, how to put the pieces of a family back together again, how to live with the jagged egdes.