overheard a friend wishing his gf "happy burger day", after the call ended i asked him "is it burger day today?" and he goes "no i send her burger every month on her first day of periods so it is OUR BURGER DAY."
just another day couples around me making feel single. 😭😭😭😭😭
Girl to girl: be that girl again.
Get disciplined again. Take care of yourself again. Eat better & move your body again. Oil your edges & drink your water again. Start praying & reading your Bible again. Get your money up and sleep 8 hours again. Find your spark and put yourself first.
I'm living proof that trauma doesn't have to harden you or turn you into someone evil.
I've been hurt in ways that I don't always talk about. I've carried pain that I never asked for, and also survived things that changed me FOREVER !. However, I still lead with love. I still show up with kindness and a smile. I still believe in good people, soft moments and second chances. Healing didn't make me perfect but it reminded me that I get to decide who I become & I refuse to let what broke me turn me into someone that I'm not 💯
Pay a bill. Pay a bill. Work. Work. Work. Change your oil. CARD DECLINED! CARD IS LOCKED! Change your password. 2 step verification. PERIOD! Unload the dishwasher. Change tire. 4 TIRES! WAKE UP! Work. Work. Work. Food is bad. Apple $9.99. Skincare. Sunscreen. Protein. Protein. Pay a bill. Pay a bill. Always somebody’s birthday. “Are you coming?” RENT IS DUE! I’m so EXHAUSTERWELMULATED with life right now! 😩😭
I think one of the hardest adult lessons is that you still have to show up , no matter what you’re carrying . Do it sad , Do it grieving, Do it exhausted . Life doesn’t pause to spare you , it keeps moving , so you keep moving too.
I think I owe myself an apology for being in spaces where I knew I wasn't wanted & appreciated, but instead, I stayed. For forcing broken connections & ships. I owe myself an apology, but please don't think your past self lacked worth in any way.
One of the main reasons I stopped oversharing is because certain friendships and relationships lack substance, so they utilize your business as topic of discussion. I value my privacy, and I don’t want anyone who hasn’t been told about my business to know anything.
a lot of adults don't better themselves??? and have no intention of growth or healing??? they’re just living their lives with horrible communication skills, lack of emotional intelligence, selfishness, and hurt feelings FOREVER?????
someone that misses me throughout the day, wants to talk to me, wants to hear how my day is going, wants to video chat when we both are free just to see each other.
Sorry I haven’t answered your texts or been reaching out, I’ve been second guessing my entire career path, rethinking my life choices, questioning my friendships, and trying to catch up on 10 years of lost sleep.
Do not borrow shame from the past. You are not that person anymore and you simply didn't know better. No reason to beat yourself up for it.
All you can do is really do better.
i realized that a lot of adults are healing their inner child and that's one of the reasons why i don't make fun of people who have "childish" hobbies. some people didn't get to have a childhood until they became adults.
finding someone who stays patient with you while you’re actively unlearning survival mode is one of the most surreal and disorienting forms of love to experience
As someone with anxiety, I cannot do inconsistency. Don’t introduce me to energy and a vibe you don’t plan on maintaining. One minute, you’re sweet; the next minute, you’re mean and cold. One minute, you’re present; the next minute, you’re distant. Absolutely not.