Guys, they did not lie, it really gets better in your 30s.. i cant believe the money I’ve touched in my 30s, the places I’ve been to in my 30s, the food I’ve had in my 30s, my 30s have been such a breeze, i honestly love it here 🦋
as i grow in authenticity, i pray i continue to repel what isn’t for me. as i confidently stand firm in who i am, i pray i attract people with the courage to do the same. aligned community— that’s the end goal.
Your ass is fat. Your wallet is fat. Your waistline is small. Your stomach is flat. Your skin is clear. Your hair is long like Rapunzel's. Your lashes are curled and perfect. Your nails are slaying. Your career is thriving. Your love life is perfect. Your life is going perfectly.
I’m starting to realise that being organised is actually a skill.
Being able to organise things in a way that is neat, practical and easy to maintain is actually skill…
But society will call you OCD.
Isolation definitely is apart of your glow up journey. It’s going to help you become the best version of yourself. I get so much done when I really silence all the noise and focus in on me!
My goal for 2025 is learning to fall in love with process over outcome. I want to enjoy the process of building more than I enjoy the outcome of my hard work. The repetitiveness of showing up everyday and doing difficult things… I want that to be my main source of fulfilment.
I got real life friends that I consider sisters and I don’t talk to them everyday but I know at any moment they will show up and show out about me. So talking to somebody everyday never been a form of validation in a friendship for me. It’s quality over quantity.
I love when men are men. Thank you for paying for my meals, thank you for opening my doors, thank you for letting me yap, thank you for holding my hand, thank you for reminding me of how beautiful I am, thank you for making plans, thank you for the surprises . . .
I don’t have the desire to do anything on NYE but to pray + speak life & positivity over my 2025. I already feel so blessed & feel like this new year will be MINE! i’m ready.