because no amount of โi love youโ can erase the fact that you looked at my worth,weighed it against your urge and picked the urge. cheating isnโt a mistake,itโs a decision. a deliberate, selfish act made while knowing exactly who it would hurt.
In case you werenโt raised correctly, it is a man's job to set the tone in a relationship. Whether people want to admit it or not, a woman feeds off his energy.. his consistency, his intentions, his presence. She takes what he gives and reflects it. When a man leads with clarity, love, and respect, it creates a space where a woman can feel safe, soft, and secure. Vice versa, when he leads with confusion, mixed signals, and inconsistency, it forces her to operate in survival mode. She becomes guarded, unsure, and emotionally exhausted ๐ก