She wants to meet the love of her life naturally, but she also never really leaves the house, has like 2 friends, runs at the first sign of attraction, and doesn’t like to post pictures of herself.
Staying in a relationship just because you love someone is not worth it. love is not all you need. Respect is what you need. Time is what you need. Reassurance is what you need. Happiness is what you need. A bestfriend is what you need.
LAZINESS can kill a relationship. no, you’re not CHEATING. but there’s also NO FLOWERS, no SURPRISES, no APPRECIATION posts, no SWEET MESSAGES, no DATES (unless your s/o practically BEGS for them). so yes, the truth is LAZINESS can SLOWLY kill LOVE. sometimes, simply being LOYAL just isn’t ENOUGH
UPDATING your partner is one of the MOST IMPORTANT things in a relationship. being BUSY is NOT a reason to disappear. it’s NOT an excuse to leave someone waiting for HOURS. if your partner is taking time to wait for your RESPONSE, the least you can do is give an UPDATE. it’s not about control. it’s about RESPECT, CONSIDERATION, and CARE. if you matter, you don’t leave them guessing
my toxic trait is i’m perfectly fine holding a grudge for the rest of my life. i won’t lose sleep, i won’t be miserable, i won’t find it a waste. i’m genuinely okay with never moving on or healing from someone that’s done me wrong. i will hate you forever. 🤣
1. i don’t know how to express my feelings
2. i don’t like asking for help
3. i don’t know how to check up on people
4. i’m an overthinker
5. i’m quick to say nvm or leave it
6. i like being alone
7. i can’t express affection too much
8. i’m observant