His gf better than me fr. She must have seen the future. But I know her friends had a separate gc being like “i don’t wanna be mean bc like ok he’s hot or whatever but girl…he has no job….can somebody talk to her?????”
Out of ten men, one makes a sexual joke at a woman, two laugh, three fake a chuckle to fit in, and four stay silent. None of them speak up. Later, nine of them still believe they're the "good guys." But from the woman's perspective, the laughter, the silence, the looking away, it all creates the same environment. So when women say"most men are the same," this is what they mean: not that every man harasses women, but that most men help protect the system that does.
Read and stay open to learning. The feminist journey is endless because patriarchy keeps reinventing itself and so must our understanding. Be curious rather than defensive and let your views evolve without shame.