#letsendtoxicity
MADRAS MEDICAL COLLEGE, CHENNAI ā is this medical training or psychological torture?
A resident reports:
⢠3+ DAYS continuous duty with barely 6 hours sleep
⢠Constant targeting, humiliation & threats
⢠No teaching, only exploitation
⢠Verbal abuse, discrimination & fear-based silence
⢠NO basic facilities ā not even drinking water
And this is one of the ābest institutesā in South India?
Residents pushed to the brink ā anxiety, substance misuse, even suicidal thoughts.
This is NOT training. This is SYSTEMIC ABUSE.
@MoHFW_INDIA@NMC_IND@CMOTamilnadu
How many more doctors need to break before you act?
#StopMedicalExploitation #ResidentLivesMatter #ToxicResidency #DoctorsAreHuman #EndResidencyAbuse
Even doctors donāt encroach into each otherās specialties despite having the same fundamental medical training. We understand our limitations and hands off when we have gotten to our limit. Yet our other colleagues in the MDT think they even know better than us in our field.
Australia just recorded zero cervical cancer cases in women under 25 - for the first time since records began in 1982.
This is what happens when a country commits to HPV vaccination and screening. We protect our girls and save lives.
Dear parent,
It is VERY OK, when you take your child to the hospital and your doctor decides not to prescribe any medicine for you because it isn't necessary.
A 3-year MD is not enough; DM super-specialties take 7 years in total.
Radiology will get replaced by AI.
If you choose psychiatry, youāll go mad yourself.
Surgery has a very long learning curve.
Pulmonologists end up getting TB.
In anaesthesia, thereās no direct patient interaction.
Pathology and microbiology are non-clinical branches.
Gynaecology has a lot of toxicity, etc.
If you go by Twitter doctorsā profiles, the entire medical profession seems doomed, and being a protein supplement MBBS wala daactar is apparently the best job in the world.
So, never take medical (or career) advice from Twitter.
The Orgasm Gap is one of the biggest unspoken inequalities in relationships,& itās hiding in bedrooms everywhere.
Letās break the silence:
𫱠Hereās the uncomfortable truth:
Heterosexual men orgasm in the majority of sexual encounters.
Heterosexual women? Under half.
Same bed. Same moment. Totally different experience.
Thatās not ānature.ā Thatās inequality.
š«±If this were any other area of life- salary, safety, health- weād call it unfair.
But because it happens in the bedroom, people stay silent, embarrassed, or convinced itās ājust how it is.ā
š«±Itās NOT biology.
How do we know?
Because lesbian and bisexual women orgasm way more frequently.
If the female body were ādifficult,ā this wouldnāt happen.
When women are understood, prioritised, and stimulated correctly, they climax- consistently.
š«±The real issue is the way weāve been taught to think about sex.
Sex-ed focused on pregnancy, STIs, male anatomy, and abstinence.
But nothing about:
⢠the clitoris
⢠female arousal
⢠emotional context
⢠communication
⢠pleasure
We entered adulthood knowing how to prevent pregnancy- not how to create pleasure.
š«±The clitoris is the most misunderstood organ in the body.
Purely for pleasure.
Thousands of nerve endings.
Essential for orgasm for most women.
And yet⦠itās barely acknowledged in mainstream sex.
If you skip the clitoris, you skip her orgasm.
š«±Porn made it worse.
It teaches speed over slowness, penetration over touch, performance over intimacy.
It shows women climaxing unrealistically from penetration alone.
Real life doesnāt work like that- and it leaves women feeling inadequate and men feeling misled.
š«±But the orgasm gap isnāt just physical- itās emotional.
Women carry:
⢠body insecurity
⢠fear of being ātoo demandingā
⢠pressure to perform
⢠guilt about taking time
⢠shame about expressing desires
⢠mental distractions
⢠lack of comfort or safety
These things shut down arousal before it even starts.
š«±And men carry pressures too:
⢠āI need to perform.ā
⢠āI need to satisfy her instantly.ā
⢠āI should already know what she likes.ā
Nobody taught them communication.
Nobody taught them that pleasure is teamwork, not guessing.
š«±The fix? A total rewrite of how we think about sex.
Sex is not āforeplay ā penetration ā climax.ā
Sex is:
⢠building arousal
⢠exploring
⢠touching
⢠slowing down
⢠communication
⢠clitoral focus
⢠mutual pleasure
⢠emotional connection
Penetration is one chapter- not the whole book.
š«±When womenās pleasure is prioritised, everything improves:
The intimacy.
The trust.
The relationship satisfaction.
Even men report feeling more confident and fulfilled.
Because pleasure is not a competition- itās collaboration.
𫱠The orgasm gap represents something deeper:
Whose pleasure matters?
Whose voice is heard?
Who feels free to take up space?
This is about equality- in the most intimate part of life.
š«±Closing the gap doesnāt require magic.
Just:
⢠honest conversations
⢠understanding anatomy
⢠ditching myths
⢠exploring what feels good
⢠taking time
⢠letting go of ego
⢠centering BOTH partnersā pleasure
𫱠Women are not āhard to please.ā
They are:
under-taught,
under-communicated with,
under-stimulated,
and often under-valued sexually.
Fix those- and the orgasm gap collapses.
𫱠The truth is simple:
When both partnersā pleasure matters, sex becomes connection, not pressure.
Joy, not performance.
Intimacy, not inequality.