Real intimacy ain’t forcing somebody to tear their walls down. It’s understanding why they built them in the first place… then loving them with enough patience that they eventually open the gate on their own.
however chill or not chill I seem now, I was way way more strict as a kid. I was in kindergarten avoiding kids who said “libary” because I thought they were incurably stupid
"Childless women have been mothering the world and elevating culture as aunties, godmothers, teachers.
You do not need to push out a baby to help push
humanity forward."
-Tracee Ellis Ross
And like Miley Cyrus said:
“I didn’t talk badly about you—I talked about what you did to me. If that makes you look bad, that’s not my problem anymore.”