The worst part about this is when yk you’re over-explaining, but you still send the paragraph because you genuinely want to be understood. Then you realize they understood what you meant the first time, but you’re sitting there writing paragraphs trying to make them care. You really can’t communicate somebody into having consideration for you.
Being in a relationship means... WHATEVER you do... consider your partners feelings. If you can’t do that...don’t be in a relationship...
Feelings matter
I literally HAD TO FIGHT MY WAY OUT OF THAT DARK SPACE IN LIFE AND I REFUSE TO LET ANYONE TAKE ME BACK!!! That goes for family, friends, relationships. I CANNOT LOSE ME ANYMORE !!!
Foreplay in 1995:
- Lots of kissing and touching her body
- Eating her out for a few minutes
- Handjobs and fingering to get ready
- Natural buildup without much planning
- Simple making out that gradually gets heated
Foreplay in 2026:
Nobody likes you when you're depressed.
Plain and simple. We can talk all day about mental health and how important it is, but the moment you are depressed, people start to distance themselves. They see you as negative, a burden, and someone too heavy to handle.
I think I finally reached the point where I don’t care anymore. I’m a good person, but I can’t force nobody to see my worth, appreciate what I bring, or value me the way they should. If somebody keeps overlooking me, I let them. I know what I bring to the table, and I’m done trying to convince people they should see it too.
the sexiest thing a man can do is learn you. not just love you, but understand you,know how to show up for you, recognize your silence, remember the little things, and make you feel seen. It's never about grand gestures; it's about being intentional in the ways that matter most