Please pray about everything ! Your mood swings, your temper, your ego, your insecurities, your mindset, your self love, your emotional state, your environment, your relationships, your lack of motivation, your lack of execution, your attraction to bad ppl ! PRAY ABOUT IT ALL !
Love after 25 is different. You’re not looking for sparks. You’re looking for stability, kindness and shared goals. You’ve outgrown games and butterflies. You’re craving peace, emotional safety, and someone whose future aligns with yours.
You kno what's super attractive to me? When a man CALMLY talks to you in times of disagreement. EVEN inspite of their frustration in the moment. Not being a hot dead and talking crazy, no character assassination.... just calmly & rationally responding with patience & diligence.
Girls, please PICK THE GENTLE ONE. The kind one. The one who brings you peace. The protective one. The one who is sure of you. The one who respects you. The one who understands your silence. The one who sees your heart without judgement. The one who holds your dreams with care.
Y'all ever dealt with a person so manipulative and draining that you literally just give up on trying to get your point across? Because all they do is PURPOSELY try not to understand and flip it back on you?