when jhene said "i used to think i was introverted because I really liked being alone but it turns out that i just like my peace, and i am very extroverted around people who bring me peace." and i felt every word.
I am so protective over this current version of me. It took a lot of mental, emotional, and spiritual work for me to get to this stage. So if I come off as if I’m too good for certain people, situations, events, conversations, whatever…it’s because at this point in my life I am.
best thing i did this year was stop being a good friend. sounds crazy but i was too attentive, too quick to show up, spreading myself too thin for so many people and having none of that same energy reciprocated when needed. i love just worrying about myself now.