It’s not even just “black people” they hate the darker people in their own races. Just look at how Indians talk about darker skin Indians. How Koreans talk about any Korean 2 shades darker than the rest of them. It’s insidious.
i think long-term stress changes people quietly. you become less expressive, less excited, more tired, more detached, until one day you barely recognize the version of yourself that existed before survival mode.
Honestly the worst thing you can do when you’re self conscious is put yourself in a position where you have to get an outfit from the store last minute
I think we need a real discussion about white people adopting/caring for non white children and torturing them especially if the child is Black. We just had a white teacher exposed for abusing a Black non verbal autistic child and now this. I’m heartbroken