whatever happens in the Lindsey Clancy trial, a main conversation we need to be having is why the hell men are still going on with their lives like their wives arenโt struggling? Why are their hobbies not put on hold? Why do they not change how they behave when their wife says sheโs drowning and struggling? If you want to keep living a childfree existence or feel it cuts into your personal hobbies, donโt fucking have kids. Allowing your wife to go through that while your life continues is abuse.