Indo Arianators, arianasindo collab sama photomatics!!!
Dateng ke photobooth di lokasi-lokasi berikut dan kalian bakal bisa pilih special frame tema “hate that i made you love me”
see ya 💋👄
jahat. ghosting menurut aku salah satu bentuk komunikasi paling jahat sih :(
apalagi kalo sebelumnya intens, sering ngobrol, bikin orang nyaman, terus tiba-tiba hilang gitu aja without any explanation. mungkin keliatannya sepele buat yang ninggalin, tapi buat yang ditinggal itu bisa jadi kepikiran lama banget.
disappearing without explanation itu bisa ninggalin seseorang dengan banyak banget pertanyaan di kepala mereka sendiri. “aku salah apa ya?”, “kurang apa?”, “did i do something wrong?” and honestly… that feeling sucks.
personally, aku selalu usahain kasih closure ke orang. not because i owe everyone my energy, but because i respect their feelings. aku gamau ninggalin seseorang dengan penuh tanda tanya dan nyalahin dirinya sendiri cuma karena aku gak bisa ngomong jujur.
even a simple “i don’t think we should continue this anymore” itu jauh lebih manusiawi dibanding ngilang tiba-tiba.
karena at the end of the day, being honest might hurt someone for a moment, but ghosting hurts them while making them question their worth. and i never want to make someone feel that way :(
Jahat, gak sopan dan childish. Menurut gua no closure is closure tuh gak ada, itu mah lack of respect. Sesimple jelasin aja gak bisa? payah. Kalo emang merasa belum dewasa dan belum bisa berkomunikasi dengan baik, gak usah mulai hubungan sama orang. Mungkin sama kambing aja
might get cancelled for saying this but hate that i made you love me sounds like it's been copied from somewhere? it all sounds so familiar. i just can't pinpoint exactly where i've heard it? oh wait… i've figured it out… it sounds like song of the year!
gue dulu juga mikirnya gini. but now i realize, sometimes orang ngejauh bukan sengaja mau nyakitin, tapi karna mereka ga bisa handle conflict, takut confrontation, emotionally overwhelmed, atau emang belom punya emotional maturity buat explain their feelings properly