this is also a dope accountability practice for me because when i see things i don’t like with others, i can ask myself if i displayed any of that with them for them to think that was acceptable with me. and then i adjust and realign and keep it moving, with or without them.
It’s all “Girl Power” until it’s a Girl you don’t think is deserving of attention, or one you don’t understand, or one who doesn’t look like you. The conditional support seems to only revolve around those you find socially & conventionally acceptable.