but sha, i lowkey needed the character development i’ve gotten over the past year bc i can only imagine how naive i’d still be if i hadn’t seen all this shege.
you can be head over heels for someone, thinking ur conversations are special & ur intimacy is exclusive, meanwhile some friend is having those same conversations with ur partner & laughing behind ur back. never underestimate the damage of loving someone with NO boundaries
And also infidelity is not one of the "ups and downs" of marriage.
Disagreements, financial difficulties, illness and changing circumstances are.
But betrayal is a violation of the very trust upon which marriage rests. We should be careful not to normalise it in the name of weathering "marital storms."
MISSING PERSON: A family in Katsina town is desperately searching for their son, Al-Amin Mansir, who went missing around the area behind Shema Filling Station, near Central Motor Park Katsina, five days ago. The family is yet to hear from him and is appealing to the public for help.
Anyone who has seen him should please take him to the nearest police station or call 08169717739.
Please help share this post. Someone out there may have information that could reunite him with his family.
May Allah bring him home safely
Being at home with a degree and no job is not for the weak 😭 Abeg, if you know of any job opportunities, please put me on. I’m honestly tired of staying at home. I just want to work 😭🙏🏽
VIDEO UPDATE: Ahmed Zakka, who was abducted alongside his wife and their baby in Millennium City, Kaduna, has sent another desperate plea for help to his relatives.
In the heartbreaking video, he says his hand (right) has gone numb after being tightly tied with a rope by the bandits. He fears they may cut off his hand.
A whole family is in captivity, and Ahmed is pleading to be rescued before it is too late. His wife and innocent baby are also at the mercy of their captors.
My appeal is to the authorities and everyone who can help to do everything possible to secure their safe release.
I still remember when my colleague was kidnapped on her way home from work early this year.
For two months, her parents ran from pillar to post, borrowing money and begging family and friends to help raise the ransom.
When she finally came home, she narrated how they were gang-raped every morning and night.
The kidnappers chose their victims and temporary married them to themselves celebrating, eating and drinking like it was a legal union.
She said sometimes they shared one woman among two, three, or four men.
Weeks after her release, she was found pregnant.
That same week, we lost her to su!cide. The trauma was more than her heart could bear.
And whenever I see people still supporting this government, I remember her. I remember her parents, I think of other victims that never made it to the media.
How do you watch people suffer d!e like this and still defend a government that has failed to protect them?
Are you human at all or just deliberately wicked?