Everything worth having in life requires you to suffer to get it. There’s nothing you really want that comes easy. Put in the fucking work. The only thing standing in the way of what you really want in life is a bunch of work. So Do The Fucking Work. Thats it!
Lesson I’ve learnt in life..
Instead of thinking ‘how do I find the perfect woman’
Think
“How do I disqualify the wrong ones fast?”
“How do I spot the hidden landline before I get emotionally invested?”
@Getinwithgame She would remind me often of how she could get any guy but she chooses to be with me. Deep down she felt like she was better than me so it would have never worked because ultimately she didn’t truly want me but didn’t have the courage to leave so I had to end it eventually.
@TuanVy Nice story you’re a great writer. I used to work in a butchers shop where I was the only black guy there in a rich white family owned business. Reading this brings back memories!
Bet it felt good for you to go back there as a BOSS!
@ZssBecker This is such a real relatable post. I’m blue belt in Bjj and that is exactly what I had to go through… feeling embarrassed if a new guy comes in and whoops my ass. Here’s to sucking for years enough to eventually get really really good!