Notice how some men only ‘lose their temper’ with their girl but stay calm with their male boss & coworkers? That's exactly how you identify a calculated abuser.
The kindest thing you can do for yourself is to become a reader. Read the romance. Read the fantasy. Read the mystery. Read all kinds of literature. But never pick up a self-help book
disappointment is weird because yes i want to forgive you, whole heartedly... but my mind is struggling to comprehend why would you ever think it was ok to do me like that
It's so selfish to enter someone's life, see that they're a loving, cheerful, and good person, and decide to ruin their peace because you haven't dealt with your own issues. Leave people alone if you have no intention of showing up with sincerity.
my mom once told me "accountability will always feel like an attack when you are not ready to acknowledge how your behavior harms others" and that shit is real.