Sometimes male anger at “women getting special treatment” reminds me of a gorilla experiment. One gorilla gets a banana every hour. The females next to him get one every four hours. Then someone decides to be fairer and gives the females a banana every two hours instead. The original gorilla? He flips out. He's still getting his banana every hour, but it feels like a loss because his advantage shrank. That's how a lot of men react to basic fairness for women: not as justice, but as theft.
hayatınıza her girenin karakteriniz hakkında s*k s*k tespitler yapıp size keyfince kimlik atamasına izin verdiğiniz için her şeyin sonunda ben acaba bunların toplamından mı ibaretim buhranıyla literally s*k gibi biri oluyorsunuz, yapmayın… karakterinizi referanduma açmayın
It's easy to be a naive idealist. It's easy to be a cynical realist. It's quite another thing to have no illusions and still hold the inner flame.
Marie-Louise von Franz
gercekten yasamin farkinda olmak buyuk bir nimet. günün en sıradan aktivitesini bile derinlestiren bi nimet. agaclari izlemek, nefes alırken durup havanin kalitesini ölcmek, seslere kulak kabartmak, hayvanları sevmek, yürümek ya düz yürümek. yasamin farkinda olmak buyuk bir nimet
I wish that when I said I didn’t want to be in an aquarium, you had understood that I was crazy about swimming not the ocean. Maybe then, we could have swum together.