Islam values both seeking knowledge and getting married—neither is meant to block the other. Gaining education is a means of empowerment and helps a person fulfill their responsibilities with wisdom, while marriage is a blessed Sunnah that brings stability and completes half of one’s faith. If a person is emotionally, mentally, and financially able to balance both, then marrying during studies is permissible and can even be beneficial.
However, if marriage is likely to distract from or negatively impact one’s education and future goals, then it is wiser to complete studies first. Islam encourages making thoughtful decisions with hikmah (wisdom). Both education and marriage are blessings from Allah, so seek the right timing through du‘a, patience, and tawakkul. What is written for you will come at the right time, in the best way.
O Allah, grant us wisdom in our decisions, bless us with beneficial knowledge, and grant us righteous spouses who support our faith and growth. Ameen .
Abubuwa 4 Masu Halakar da Mata.
1️⃣Harshe mai zafi
2️⃣Yawan kai ƙara (Complain)
3️⃣Rashin godiya
4️⃣Shigan Banza
Duk wacce ta tsira daga wadanna dabi'u zata rabauta duniya da lahira..
1. It’s Sunnah to marry older women.
2. It’s Sunnah to marry a divorcee.
3. It’s Sunnah to marry a widow.
4. It’s Sunnah to help women in household chores i.e. cooking, cleaning, washing etc.
5. It’s Sunnah to put food with your hand in your wife's mouth as an expression of love. (graded as a form of charity)
6. It’s Sunnah to verbally express love, appreciation, and respect to your wife.
7. It’s Sunnah to forgive her mistakes.
8. It’s Sunnah to keep yourself looking pleasant for your wife.
9. It’s Sunnah to try to know the feelings of your wife and console her when she needs it.
10. It's Sunnah to be playful with your wife and spend quality time having fun together. (racing, story-telling, sharing happy occasion with her are some well-known examples)
11. It's Sunnah to recline and relax in your wife's lap.
12. It's Sunnah to call your wife with beautiful names.
13. It's Sunnah to not disclose her private matters to other family members or friends.
14. It's Sunnah to love and respect her parents.
May Allah SWT grant us ability to follow the Sunnah and grant us righteous spouse. Ameen
RAYUWA BA GASA BA CE...!!!
Wani lokaci muna kallon rayuwar wasu muna jin kamar mu mun makara…
Wani yana da mota, wani yana da gida, wani kuma yana da nasara a sana’a — sai ka fara tambayar kanka: “Ni fa ina nake?”
Amma gaskiya ita ce:
👉 Kowa da lokacinsa
👉 Kowa da gwagwarmayarsa
👉 Kowa da jarabawarsa
Ba lallai bane ka yi sauri kamar wani, domin tafiyarka daban ce.
Ka tsaya ka tambayi kanka:
✔ Shin ina kokari?
✔ Shin ina cigaba, ko da kadan ne?
✔ Shin ina godewa Allah da abin da nake da shi?
Ka tuna:
Ba wanda ya san irin wahalar da ka sha sai kai da Ubangijinka.
Kada ka raina kanka saboda ka kwatanta rayuwarka da ta wani.
Abin da naka yana nan tafe — kawai ka ci gaba da hakuri, addu’a da kokari.
Lokacina na zuwa Insha Allah”
O Allah, the Ever-Living, Self-Sustainer, make us among those who are the greatest beneficiaries of the month of Ramadan and answer our supplications.
O Allah, the Ever-Living, the Self-Sustainer, be merciful to our deceased parents, family members, children, and our loved ones.
O Allah, the Ever-Living, the Self-Sustainer, whoever is merciful to the poor and the weak, be Merciful to him; and whoever is unmerciful to them, be unmerciful to him.
O Allah, the Ever-Living and Self-Sustainer, bless our communities, states, and country with stability, peace, prosperity, and justice for All and continue to guide all to the path of success in both worlds.
#Ramadan
Masu Posting Tarawih/Tahajjud, Karatun Qur'ani, Addu'oi da Sauran Ayyukan ku na Alkhairi, Mun gani Aikinku Sai dai Masha Allah.
Amma Idan mun isa mu Baku Ladan!💰
It’s desirable to respect your younger ones that Allah has placed above you in terms of leadership and it’s also obligatory to respect those older than you even if you are above them in terms of worldly things.
MATASHI, KA DAINA NEMAN AMINCEWAR KOWA...!!!
Dan uwa… daya daga cikin abin da ke rage darajar ka shi ne ƙoƙarin faranta wa kowa rai.
1. Ba za ka iya gamsar da kowa ba
Ko da ka zama zinari, akwai wanda ba ya son haske.
2. Yarda da kanka shi ne tushe
Idan kai baka yarda da kanka ba, wa zai yarda da kai?
Wasu suna amfani da kirki ne su taka ka
Ka zama mai kirki, amma ka zama mai iyaka.
3. Ƙin yarda wani ya ɓata maka rai ba rashin kunya bane
Kare mutuncinka wajibi ne.
4. Mutanen da suka dace da kai ba za su tilasta ka canza halinka ba
Za su karɓe ka da dabi’arka.
5. Ka tsaya akan gaskiyarka ko da kai kaɗai ne
Gaskiya ba ta bukatar jama’a kafin ta zama gaskiya.
Ka tuna: darajarka ba ta hannun mutane ba ce
Tana cikin halinka da niyyarka.
Matashi, ka rayu don ka cika manufarka, ba don ka cika burin mutane ba.
Allah SWT ya tsare mana zuciya da mutunci. 🤲
SIRRIN DA YAKE SA MACE TA RIKA GANIN KWARJININKA DA DARAJARKA...!!!👑
Maza da yawa suna tunanin idan suna yawan rantsuwa ko kuka akan soyayya, shi ne zai sa mace ta ji tausayinsu har ta so su. Wannan Babban Kuskure ne!
Sirrin shi ne: 'Kada ka zama mai yawan magana mara amfani'.
Namijin da ya san darajar kansa, baya cika surutu. Kalmomin bakinsa kadan ne, amma kowacce tana da nauyi da ma'ana. Idan ka zama mai cika alkawari, mai natsuwa a magana, kuma baka damu da sanin kowane labarin garin ba...
Anan ne mace zata fara kallonka da wani irin kwarjini. Zata ji cewa kai ba namiji ne na 'yau da kullum' ba.
Anan ne mace zata fara kallonka da wani irin kwarjini. Zata ji cewa kai ba namiji ne na 'yau da kullum' ba.
Tambaya ta musamman: > Shin mace tafi son namiji mai yawan surutu da raha, ko kuwa namiji mai natsuwa da kwarjini? 🧐👇
Maza, me kuke gani ne yake rage wa namiji kwarjini a idon mace?"
A broken system is not fixed by abandonment; it is fixed when good people step in, people of knowledge, faith, and moral strength.
Nigeria’s renewal won’t come from the sidelines. It comes when people like Pantami enter the arena.
Indeed We need more Pantami in politics.