@loveyourboka She’s a 10 but lives in Canada so she can’t use Boka 🙃
Boka’s a 10 but charges people for products before telling Canadians they can’t ship to them.
“wondering how to become permanent for fixture.
wondering why no one listens to her flower tongue
unless the words sound sweet.
meaning, why no one takes her seriously.”
- “forging” excerpt
the day is ready for you
by alison malee
“i want more for any woman who spent the day wondering
how to be better without taking up any more space.”
- “forging” excerpt
the day is ready for you
by alison malee
“Everyone is afraid of being different. We don’t get to choose how different we are. Our differences should bring us closer … We need to see the value in everyone. Everyone has a meaning.”
- Andre (Every Voice Matters, 2019)
Hey! If you don't have one already, go get a library card for where you live! It'll support the funding for your local library and it's free and quick and libraries have so much free stuff, not just books!
Not recognizing or valuing oral history is a form of racism called epistemic racism—where certain forms of knowledge are considered superior to others.
It’s necessary to grow. It’s okay to say “I didn’t think of it that way, I’ll learn from this” or “I didn’t know that, I won’t do that anymore”.
If you read this whole thing, thank you. Let’s learn together. It isn’t cancel culture, it’s change culture. And we are the change.
I saw a comment where someone said they were uncomfortable with the term Aspergers bc of its terrible history. Someone else responded saying that lots of things have terrible histories and we “shouldn’t let it impact us” and that “acknowledging it is enough”.
No. Here’s why:
Let’s make a better future. That can’t happen if we don’t accept, learn from, & make changes from the past.
Let go of the idea that admitting fault/apologies are bad & followed by punishment. Let go of shame and replace it with humility. Accept that we are all just learning.