if i am subjected to disrespect and incompetence, i am cutting you out of my life. i am exhausted from attempting to rationalize people's "emotional instability"
as i grew older, i realised that it’s so COMMON for filo culture to isolate their partner from having friends. i don’t get it learn to give your bf/gf space when they need it. come on people, it’s a f relationship not ownership.
honestly my ph friends never really made me feel they’re distant, having friends who are supportive makes the biggest difference to someone struggling with depressive episodes. thank God for beautiful souls. 🥹✨
have developed this mentality lately. don’t compromise your values to ‘keep the peace’ with toxic friends / fam members
i’m not the one to cut ties w ppl but ugh when ppl stoop too low & get toxic?
cut them out of your life w no remorse.
sprinkle some peppermint essential oil on your fave fluffy blanket, put it in the dryer. enjoy a warm, and toasty nap hehi. thank me when you wake up in 10 hours.