my mom once told me "accountability will always feel like an attack when you are not ready to acknowledge how your behavior harms others" and that shit is real.
One thing I'll always hate and love about myself is in order for me to move on from something, first I need to be completely destroyed by it. And it's not a lack of self love, it's the damn faith I have in believing that everything can change.
normalize leaving people to avoid empathy burnout. yes, i love you, but i am tired of having to ask you to consider me, and i am tired of you not seeing where you went wrong.