I took a flight to CPT at the end of February 2024 to join Takeal*t as a Junior in a field I knew almost nothing about. I drove back to JHB at the end of January 2026 as a Senior (HOD, if you will), having built a career and got a small small degree enefani. Phew! 🥺
Please keep me anonymous.
I’m a 31-year-old man dating a 26-year-old woman. We’ve been together for 4 years and have a 2-year-old daughter together. I also have two kids from a previous relationship, and they all love her. From the outside, we look like a happy couple, but our bedroom life is almost dead. We only have tlof tlof maybe once a month, and I’m always the one initiating.
Ever since she got pregnant, she lost interest in intimacy. Even now, she always says she’s tired or wants to sleep whenever I try to be romantic. What confuses me is that I do everything for her. I support her fully, bought her an iPhone, laptop, designer bags, give her monthly allowance, and she even drives my big car.
She still kisses me goodbye and acts normal during the day, but there’s no affection in bed anymore. Am I overthinking this, or is something wrong in this relationship?
Can someone please recommend a Netflix show that's actually addictive, the kind that makes people stay up all night and finish season one in one sitting?
Raise your daughters to not rely on any man financially.
Men are unreliable, & women need to make their own money so that they don't become potential victims of financial abuse.
Teach your girls to study hard, get good jobs, start businesses & not date men for money.
Dear ladies never forget that: The same world that shames me for being a single mother also shames you for not being a mother and shames another woman for having too many children..lt shames one woman for having a child at the age of 19 because she's too young but also shames another for having at 36 because she's too old..lt shames a woman who marries young as well as the one who marries old..It shames women who don't have beautiful bodies and shames those who go under the knife to get the bodies. This world shames all women, not a single one of us is spared, not a single one. So love and make yourselves happy.