the worst part about being vulnerable with the wrong person is realizing u told them things u can't take back because you genuinely thought u were safe
This is the reason so many men self sabotage when they do find a woman who mirrors healthy relational patterns and open and honest communication. When somebody has never had something healthy modelled to them, they’ll view everything through the lens of toxicity that they’ve known. A woman wanting to genuinely talk things through for resolve, will simply be seen as ‘nagging’ or ‘refusing to move on’.
men will “i don’t want to hurt you” and then end up killing you by dragging out a decision that would have been easier if made earlier.
need more people to understand that clarity is kindness and when someone else is involved, you owe it to them to find it sooner than later.